Ok, this has tossed and toppled all over my mind throughout the reading of this entire book. Pro the semi-arranged but not really marriage principally impulsive and scarcely rational? Or Con? This is bothering me, because I’m SO the type of person who makes lists, let’s try it out.
Pro:
- you keep a spark going because you keep on getting to know each other
- advantage of marrying into families
- economic security
- your mother doesn’t freak out because you may never get married
- abrupt change of lifestyle
Con:
- --You encounter many conflicts because you in fact didn’t know each other
- -- Could be tagged as a gold-digger
- --Could be killed for being thought a gold-digger
- --Your mother could want to come and visit because she wants to keep an eye on you
- --- You realize that your life was in fact easier before
Yeah that didn’t work out too well… Maybe I’ll just wait and see what happens with my sisters. I’ll keep you noted!
Mary
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